Today's topic is body image, a taboo subject if there ever was one. If we aren't proud of our figures, society tells us we should be; if we are, we're told we're too arrogant. You may have read a hundred articles on how to be confident in your own skin, or you may have read one, and you would be as close to discovering a true sense of self either way. There are only so many ways you can tell a person to "be herself", and I've found maybe one, if any, to be truly helpful to me. So what do we do?
There are a lot of ways to feel confident in yourself, but true elegance is far more eluding. Elegance comes when you aren't trying. The most elegant people I know do not appear elegant because they have spent a lot of time studying the art of self-confidence, and harbor the marrow-sliver like a treasure. They are elegant - they are truly, humbly confident because they do not think about themselves, but put others before them. They are happy, because they have worked hard, because they spend their time productively and do not dwell on ill thoughts.
True beauty, and from beauty to body confidence, comes not from struggling with your "inner self" but understanding your inherent value in the kingdom of Heaven, how highly treasured you are by your Creator - and how can we destroy the work of the greatest Artist?
Be pretty if you can, be witty if you must, but be graceful if it kills you.
What tips do you have to be elegant? Is there any topic you specifically want to see a post on?